Forgetting is a skill

How many things we remember means how many things we forget. Forgetting is a skill and a need. If we would remember everything what we see and learn we wouldn’t see and learn so much things.

Some people might have an hard memory and they can remember much than normal. But scholars say hard memory is low savvy. My some observations (people those remember everything I have seen) evidence it.

Education system is built on remembering and memorizing. And we remember all events from student years which influence us. But we don’t remember many knowledge and lessons which bored us. Brain is conducted on remembering then and we remember only interesting acts.

Our remembering capacity wouldn’t be limited we would be taught much more stupid lessons. We have to remember so much think that we don’t let use savvy capacity even while we use that capacity we let savvy only paragraphs and experiments in formal lessons.

Grasping by himself (this is possible) means declining daily and educational contents.

Lessons those aren’t relevant life are carried short-term memory, after examinations all go, naturally.

But we have unforgettable loves, friendships, games, families, sadness and scares. These are placed in subconscious and remembered while dreaming.

Forgetting realizes in conscious, and we think we forget some memories, but not, some of them placed in subconscious. And they shape our daily live from puberty term. These mustn’t be forgotten but talked on with a psychiatrist, analyzed with him/her.

So what about forgetting skill. It is in conscious and helps us for happiness, sadly thought are carried to subconscious and that means new therapies.

We forget a phone number a few days later or a man who seen two days ago. If wouldn’t we couldn’t remember nothing after a while.

Psychological illness are related unforgotten bad memories in conscious or mostly in subconscious, all psychological problems are built on these. This means our forgetting power reduces against some events in the past.

Psychiatrists contacts with your problems you live today and you memories you keep in minds. Be sure many times understanding the contacts between both are enough to cure, brain tolerates it.

(I am not a doctor just amateur on psychology and philosophy)